a Thought for yom kippur
Every person should have two pockets. In one should be a piece of paper on which is written: “I am but dust and ashes.” In the other: “For my sake was the world created.”
– Rabbi Simcha Bunim of Pzhysha
On Yom Kippur, both pieces of paper are removed from one's pockets and examined together.
We remind ourselves that we are capable of doing so much good as G-d’s greatest creation.
We recall where we did not live up to our potential as human beings created in the image of G-d.
We reflect on our actions that inspired those around us.
We examine the ways we disappointed both others and ourselves.
We uplift our souls as we recognize all that we accomplished.
We lower our heads in humility when we realize how much more we could have done for those around us.
We are able to imagine the days ahead and remember it is never too late.
We look at the many days, however, that have quickly passed and recognize that it is later than we think.
And on this day where we contemplate our lives and express our deep faith in G-d, we are given a gift.
Another piece of paper to put in each pocket this year:
“...and G-d believes in you.”
May we be blessed this Yom Kippur with a most wonderful day of honest and challenging introspection.
-Rabbi Victor Urecki
– Rabbi Simcha Bunim of Pzhysha
On Yom Kippur, both pieces of paper are removed from one's pockets and examined together.
We remind ourselves that we are capable of doing so much good as G-d’s greatest creation.
We recall where we did not live up to our potential as human beings created in the image of G-d.
We reflect on our actions that inspired those around us.
We examine the ways we disappointed both others and ourselves.
We uplift our souls as we recognize all that we accomplished.
We lower our heads in humility when we realize how much more we could have done for those around us.
We are able to imagine the days ahead and remember it is never too late.
We look at the many days, however, that have quickly passed and recognize that it is later than we think.
And on this day where we contemplate our lives and express our deep faith in G-d, we are given a gift.
Another piece of paper to put in each pocket this year:
“...and G-d believes in you.”
May we be blessed this Yom Kippur with a most wonderful day of honest and challenging introspection.
-Rabbi Victor Urecki
WEEK OF SEPTEMBER 18-25, 2023
Dear Congregants,
Marilyn's complete knee replacement surgery on Monday went extremely well
(thank you, Dr. Eric Persily for being there the entire time and constantly checking on her!).
She will be joining us online this Yom Kippur but hopes to be back real soon.
Thank you for all your kind texts, messages, and emails for her recovery.
Below are the links for Shabbat and for Yom Kippur.
We hope you will be able to join us in person and online!
Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Victor Urecki
DAILY SERVICES
Monday-Thursday - 5:45 PM
Evening Services
Wednesday Morning - 7:45 AM
Wednesday Minyan
(followed by breakfast)
SHABBAT SHUVAH SERVICES
Friday, September 22nd - 5:45 PM
Shabbat candle lighting time: 7:05 PM
Parshat Ha'azinu Deuteronomy 32:1-32:52
Deuteronomy 29:9-31:30
Friday Night Service
Saturday, September 23rd, 2023 - 10:00 AM(Followed by a Kiddush luncheon)
Saturday Morning
Marilyn's complete knee replacement surgery on Monday went extremely well
(thank you, Dr. Eric Persily for being there the entire time and constantly checking on her!).
She will be joining us online this Yom Kippur but hopes to be back real soon.
Thank you for all your kind texts, messages, and emails for her recovery.
Below are the links for Shabbat and for Yom Kippur.
We hope you will be able to join us in person and online!
Shabbat Shalom,
Rabbi Victor Urecki
DAILY SERVICES
Monday-Thursday - 5:45 PM
Evening Services
Wednesday Morning - 7:45 AM
Wednesday Minyan
(followed by breakfast)
SHABBAT SHUVAH SERVICES
Friday, September 22nd - 5:45 PM
Shabbat candle lighting time: 7:05 PM
Parshat Ha'azinu Deuteronomy 32:1-32:52
Deuteronomy 29:9-31:30
Friday Night Service
Saturday, September 23rd, 2023 - 10:00 AM(Followed by a Kiddush luncheon)
Saturday Morning
OUR SYMPATHY
Stephen Mark Bernstein
August 20, 1942 - July 19, 2023
Austin, TX
Stephen Mark Bernstein was born in Huntington, WV, to George and Belle Marion Bernstein. The family resided in Ashland, KY, until 1945 then moved to Charleston, WV, were Steve attended school, graduating from Charleston High School in 1960. Steve then attended and graduated from the University of Louisville, KY. Steve was in the Navy ROTC and upon graduation was commissioned an ensign in the Navy and trained as a pilot.
Steve served in Vietnam flying an A-6 Intruder on 82 combat missions. In 1969, Steve earned a Masters Degree from Memphis State University and was hired at IBM where he was employed is software development. Steve was previously married to Leah Jane Stone. In 1984, he married his second wife Patricia with whom he had two daughters, Rebekah and Anna. The family moved to Austin, TX, in 1992. in Austin, Steve was an active member of Agudas Achim.
Steve had wonderful memories of growing up in Charleston and the B'nai Jacob community. He fondly remembered his teachers, Rabbi Cooper and fellow congregants with great affection.
-Pat Bernstein
August 20, 1942 - July 19, 2023
Austin, TX
Stephen Mark Bernstein was born in Huntington, WV, to George and Belle Marion Bernstein. The family resided in Ashland, KY, until 1945 then moved to Charleston, WV, were Steve attended school, graduating from Charleston High School in 1960. Steve then attended and graduated from the University of Louisville, KY. Steve was in the Navy ROTC and upon graduation was commissioned an ensign in the Navy and trained as a pilot.
Steve served in Vietnam flying an A-6 Intruder on 82 combat missions. In 1969, Steve earned a Masters Degree from Memphis State University and was hired at IBM where he was employed is software development. Steve was previously married to Leah Jane Stone. In 1984, he married his second wife Patricia with whom he had two daughters, Rebekah and Anna. The family moved to Austin, TX, in 1992. in Austin, Steve was an active member of Agudas Achim.
Steve had wonderful memories of growing up in Charleston and the B'nai Jacob community. He fondly remembered his teachers, Rabbi Cooper and fellow congregants with great affection.
-Pat Bernstein
Valerie Binderman Zimba
July 30, 1941 — June 16, 2023
Rock Hill, SC
Valerie was born July 30, 1941 in Beckley, West Virginia, the second child of William and Beatrice Binderman. She was a quintessential wartime baby, the trailing end of the Silent Generation, born while her father was serving in the Pacific Fleet. After graduating from Woodrow Wilson High School as a member of the class of ’59 she moved west to attend San Diego State. It was there she met a young Navy Shore Patrol officer, Walter Zimba (b. 1938 – d. 2023). After he was discharged from service they made their way by auto back to her hometown and in true mid-1960’s fashion were married en-route in Las Vegas, Nevada.
Valerie and Walter had two children, Andrew who currently resides in Rock Hill, South Carolina, and Joel who resides in Baltimore, Maryland. Unfortunately, everlasting marital bliss was not in the cards for Valerie. She and Walter divorced in 1980. She never remarried.
What she did do was raise two boys through the 80’s as a single mom. This was an economically rough time in West Virginia, and Valerie worked very hard in her father’s business to support her kids into their college years. Around this time another tragedy struck, this one medical instead of marital – Valerie was diagnosed with breast cancer.
Ever the fighter, Valerie soldiered through chemotherapy and a single mastectomy. This was when she began walking daily (a routine she kept until very recently), and her healthy diet obsession (though she did have a weakness for ice cream 😊). She was the mailing list and email address keeper for the Woodrow Wilson Class of ’59 Alumni Association.
Around 2011 she moved to Newport Lakes in Rock Hill, South Carolina, just a few miles from her oldest son Andrew and his family. Here she had something that wasn’t available to her in Beckley – a large, close community to be a part of. A place to walk and talk with neighbors, something she truly valued. Those who knew her during this period probably noticed somewhere along the way that she had begun mis-remembering things and re-telling stories you had already heard. This was the start of her journey with Alzheimer’s. As with breast cancer before, she was a fighter and carried on, determined to stay in her own home and live unassisted. Even after being diagnosed with a recurrence of her breast cancer 2018, she remained fiercely independent.
Valerie passed away in her own home around 7:00 p.m. on June 16, 2023. She is survived by her older brother Philip, niece Rachel, youngest son Joel, eldest son Andrew, and grandchildren Zachary and Fallon. She will be making her final journey back home to Beckley to lie beside her parents. Graveside services will be 2:00 p.m. Tuesday, June 20, 2023 at Sunset Memorial Park with Rabbi Joe Blair officiating.
We will be making donations in her name to the Alzheimer’s Association (https://act.alz.org/) and the American Cancer Society (https://donate.cancer.org/), and invite you to do so as well if you are able.
Graveside ServiceTuesday, June 20, 2023
Starts at 2:00pm (Eastern time)
Sunset Memorial Park
1925 Harper Road Beckley, WV, 25801
July 30, 1941 — June 16, 2023
Rock Hill, SC
Valerie was born July 30, 1941 in Beckley, West Virginia, the second child of William and Beatrice Binderman. She was a quintessential wartime baby, the trailing end of the Silent Generation, born while her father was serving in the Pacific Fleet. After graduating from Woodrow Wilson High School as a member of the class of ’59 she moved west to attend San Diego State. It was there she met a young Navy Shore Patrol officer, Walter Zimba (b. 1938 – d. 2023). After he was discharged from service they made their way by auto back to her hometown and in true mid-1960’s fashion were married en-route in Las Vegas, Nevada.
Valerie and Walter had two children, Andrew who currently resides in Rock Hill, South Carolina, and Joel who resides in Baltimore, Maryland. Unfortunately, everlasting marital bliss was not in the cards for Valerie. She and Walter divorced in 1980. She never remarried.
What she did do was raise two boys through the 80’s as a single mom. This was an economically rough time in West Virginia, and Valerie worked very hard in her father’s business to support her kids into their college years. Around this time another tragedy struck, this one medical instead of marital – Valerie was diagnosed with breast cancer.
Ever the fighter, Valerie soldiered through chemotherapy and a single mastectomy. This was when she began walking daily (a routine she kept until very recently), and her healthy diet obsession (though she did have a weakness for ice cream 😊). She was the mailing list and email address keeper for the Woodrow Wilson Class of ’59 Alumni Association.
Around 2011 she moved to Newport Lakes in Rock Hill, South Carolina, just a few miles from her oldest son Andrew and his family. Here she had something that wasn’t available to her in Beckley – a large, close community to be a part of. A place to walk and talk with neighbors, something she truly valued. Those who knew her during this period probably noticed somewhere along the way that she had begun mis-remembering things and re-telling stories you had already heard. This was the start of her journey with Alzheimer’s. As with breast cancer before, she was a fighter and carried on, determined to stay in her own home and live unassisted. Even after being diagnosed with a recurrence of her breast cancer 2018, she remained fiercely independent.
Valerie passed away in her own home around 7:00 p.m. on June 16, 2023. She is survived by her older brother Philip, niece Rachel, youngest son Joel, eldest son Andrew, and grandchildren Zachary and Fallon. She will be making her final journey back home to Beckley to lie beside her parents. Graveside services will be 2:00 p.m. Tuesday, June 20, 2023 at Sunset Memorial Park with Rabbi Joe Blair officiating.
We will be making donations in her name to the Alzheimer’s Association (https://act.alz.org/) and the American Cancer Society (https://donate.cancer.org/), and invite you to do so as well if you are able.
Graveside ServiceTuesday, June 20, 2023
Starts at 2:00pm (Eastern time)
Sunset Memorial Park
1925 Harper Road Beckley, WV, 25801
May 2, 2023
Dear Congregants,
It is with sorrow and sadness that we inform you of the passing of Allan Tweddle who was taken from us on May 1st, 2023, at the age of 90. Born in Canada and immigrating to Southern California, he eventually made West Virginia his home and became part of the fabric of both Temple Israel and B'nai Jacob Synagogue.
He is survived by his wife of almost 40 years, Barbara Braun Tweddle.
A graveside service will be held for Allan on Thursday May 4th at 1:00 PM at the B’nai Jacob Eternal Home, in South Charleston.
May the Holy One, Blessed Be G-d, comfort the Tweddle family among all the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.
Rabbi Victor Urecki
Dear Congregants,
It is with sorrow and sadness that we inform you of the passing of Allan Tweddle who was taken from us on May 1st, 2023, at the age of 90. Born in Canada and immigrating to Southern California, he eventually made West Virginia his home and became part of the fabric of both Temple Israel and B'nai Jacob Synagogue.
He is survived by his wife of almost 40 years, Barbara Braun Tweddle.
A graveside service will be held for Allan on Thursday May 4th at 1:00 PM at the B’nai Jacob Eternal Home, in South Charleston.
May the Holy One, Blessed Be G-d, comfort the Tweddle family among all the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.
Rabbi Victor Urecki
April 27, 2023
Dear Congregants,
It is with deep sadness that we inform you of the passing of David Hark who was taken from us on April 27, 2023, at home after a long illness. He was a resident of Shepherdstown, WV for more than 42 years.
David grew up in Charleston and was preceded in death by his father, Israel L Hark, mother Tessie Rubenstein Hark & nephew Allen Lee Hark. He is survived by his wife Katherine Moyers Hark, brother Ben (Jane) of Charleston, WV, niece Laura Hark Plumley of Shady Spring, WV and many in-laws from Gilmer County, WV.
A private graveside service with immediate family will be Sunday, April 30, 2023, 2:00 PM at the B’nai Israel Cemetery, within the Spring Hill Cemetery.
May the Holy One, Blessed Be G-d, comfort the Hark family among all the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.
Rabbi Victor Urecki
Dear Congregants,
It is with deep sadness that we inform you of the passing of David Hark who was taken from us on April 27, 2023, at home after a long illness. He was a resident of Shepherdstown, WV for more than 42 years.
David grew up in Charleston and was preceded in death by his father, Israel L Hark, mother Tessie Rubenstein Hark & nephew Allen Lee Hark. He is survived by his wife Katherine Moyers Hark, brother Ben (Jane) of Charleston, WV, niece Laura Hark Plumley of Shady Spring, WV and many in-laws from Gilmer County, WV.
A private graveside service with immediate family will be Sunday, April 30, 2023, 2:00 PM at the B’nai Israel Cemetery, within the Spring Hill Cemetery.
May the Holy One, Blessed Be G-d, comfort the Hark family among all the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.
Rabbi Victor Urecki
April 2, 2023
Dear Congregants,
It is with deep sadness that we inform you of the passing of our beloved friend and longtime member of both Temple Israel and B'nai Jacob Synagogue, Doris Goldfarb.
Doris is survived by her husband of 68 years, Jack, their sons Glenn (Pam) Goldfarb, Daniel, and Bruce (Beverly), three grandchildren, and four great-grandchildren.
The graveside funeral service for Doris will take place on Tuesday, April 4th at 2:00 PM at the B'nai Jacob Eternal Home in South Charleston.
A shiva minyan will take place immediately following burial at the home of Laura and Jace Goins (1 Colonial Lane).
May the Holy One, Blessed Be G-d, comfort the Goldfarb family among all the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.
Rabbi Victor Urecki
Dear Congregants,
It is with deep sadness that we inform you of the passing of our beloved friend and longtime member of both Temple Israel and B'nai Jacob Synagogue, Doris Goldfarb.
Doris is survived by her husband of 68 years, Jack, their sons Glenn (Pam) Goldfarb, Daniel, and Bruce (Beverly), three grandchildren, and four great-grandchildren.
The graveside funeral service for Doris will take place on Tuesday, April 4th at 2:00 PM at the B'nai Jacob Eternal Home in South Charleston.
A shiva minyan will take place immediately following burial at the home of Laura and Jace Goins (1 Colonial Lane).
May the Holy One, Blessed Be G-d, comfort the Goldfarb family among all the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.
Rabbi Victor Urecki
April 8, 2023
Dear Congregants,
It is with deep sorrow and sadness that we inform you of the passing of our dear friend and lifelong member of B'nai Jacob Synagogue, Norman Marks in Richmond, Virginia.
Norman is survived by his loving wife of 68 years, Marsha, children Steven (Joan) of Poquoson, Virginia, Roger (Robbie) of Denver and Debi of Richmond, and Karen of Denver; four grandchildren and two great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his parents, Fred and Florence Marks, and his brother, Harold.
The funeral service for Norman will take place on Tuesday, April 11th at 11:00 AM at the Barlow Bonsall Funeral Home with burial at the B'nai Jacob Eternal Home in South Charleston. Following the service, the family will come to B'nai Jacob to receive friends and visitors. Because of Passover, Shiva will not begin for the family until after the holiday has concluded.
May the Holy One, Blessed Be G-d, comfort the Marks family among all the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.
Rabbi Victor Urecki
Dear Congregants,
It is with deep sorrow and sadness that we inform you of the passing of our dear friend and lifelong member of B'nai Jacob Synagogue, Norman Marks in Richmond, Virginia.
Norman is survived by his loving wife of 68 years, Marsha, children Steven (Joan) of Poquoson, Virginia, Roger (Robbie) of Denver and Debi of Richmond, and Karen of Denver; four grandchildren and two great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his parents, Fred and Florence Marks, and his brother, Harold.
The funeral service for Norman will take place on Tuesday, April 11th at 11:00 AM at the Barlow Bonsall Funeral Home with burial at the B'nai Jacob Eternal Home in South Charleston. Following the service, the family will come to B'nai Jacob to receive friends and visitors. Because of Passover, Shiva will not begin for the family until after the holiday has concluded.
May the Holy One, Blessed Be G-d, comfort the Marks family among all the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.
Rabbi Victor Urecki
April 2, 20233
Dear Congregants,
It is with deep sorry that we inform you of the passing of our longtime friend and member of B'nai Jacob Synagogue, Sally Spiegel.
Sally will be remembered and cherished by her children Richard (Wendy) Spiegel, Nancy Spiegel, and her three grandchildren.
At Sally's request, there will be a private family burial this week.
May the Holy One, Blessed Be G-d, comfort the Spiegel family among all the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.
Rabbi Victor Urecki
Dear Congregants,
It is with deep sorry that we inform you of the passing of our longtime friend and member of B'nai Jacob Synagogue, Sally Spiegel.
Sally will be remembered and cherished by her children Richard (Wendy) Spiegel, Nancy Spiegel, and her three grandchildren.
At Sally's request, there will be a private family burial this week.
May the Holy One, Blessed Be G-d, comfort the Spiegel family among all the mourners of Zion and Jerusalem.
Rabbi Victor Urecki
2023 / 5784 - yom kippur service schedule
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For those joining us online for Yom Kippur:
Kol Nidre: Kol Nidrei Yom Kippur Morning: Yom Kippur Morning Yom Kippur Afternoon & Neilah: Yom Kippur Afternoon and Neilah |
Yom Kippur Service Schedule
Sunday, September 24th 7:00 PM - Kol Nidrei (Babysitting is available for Kol Nidrei) Monday, September 25th 9:00 AM - Shacharit (Morning Prayers) 10:00 AM - Torah Service/President's Address/ Sermon/Yizkor 12:00 PM - Musaph - BREAK - 4:45 PM - Junior Congregation Service 5:30 PM - Afternoon/Evening Service 6:15 PM - Neilah |
Sushi in the sukkah!! - Friday, septemberr 29th, 2023
WONDERING JEWS
Introducing: Wondering Jews
The One Stop For All Things Jewish in West Virginia
Wondering Jews, Inc. is a nonprofit organization with the goal of connecting people who are
physically or geographically challenged with the wide variety of educational, service,
and faith activities in the local West Virginia Jewish congregations.
Moe and Janie Rubenstein have created a unique website which will allow all congregations and Jewish organizations who wish to announce activities and programs of interest for Jews throughout West Virginia.
We have seen at B'nai Jacob how Zoom has opened the door to those who are challenged to allow people
in isolation to join and be a part of our B'nai Jacob family.
I am proud to announce that the website is now live and will offer us
and Jews around our state an opportunity to further connect and be together.
You can even sign up for the American Jewish Committee program on that platform as well.
Check out Wondering Jews in the months to come and in the words of the Machzor (High Holiday Prayerbook),
may we all be bound together, connected to each other.
Check out Wondering Jews here
The One Stop For All Things Jewish in West Virginia
Wondering Jews, Inc. is a nonprofit organization with the goal of connecting people who are
physically or geographically challenged with the wide variety of educational, service,
and faith activities in the local West Virginia Jewish congregations.
Moe and Janie Rubenstein have created a unique website which will allow all congregations and Jewish organizations who wish to announce activities and programs of interest for Jews throughout West Virginia.
We have seen at B'nai Jacob how Zoom has opened the door to those who are challenged to allow people
in isolation to join and be a part of our B'nai Jacob family.
I am proud to announce that the website is now live and will offer us
and Jews around our state an opportunity to further connect and be together.
You can even sign up for the American Jewish Committee program on that platform as well.
Check out Wondering Jews in the months to come and in the words of the Machzor (High Holiday Prayerbook),
may we all be bound together, connected to each other.
Check out Wondering Jews here
classes & hebrew lessons
Sunday, September 2023
Sunday and Hebrew school resumes today.
As in past years, we keep in touch with parents through "Remind" texts each week.
If you are new to the community or know someone with children who may want to join our
Sunday sessions, please email me and I will personally reach out.
Sunday and Hebrew school resumes today.
As in past years, we keep in touch with parents through "Remind" texts each week.
If you are new to the community or know someone with children who may want to join our
Sunday sessions, please email me and I will personally reach out.
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